Try integrating these 7 𝐫𝐞𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐝 𝐩𝐡𝐫𝐚𝐬𝐞𝐬 into your daily conversations. Small shifts in language can lead to big shifts in mindset, collaboration, and outcomes.
1. "𝐒𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐰𝐞 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐚𝐭 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐧?"👉 Encourages flexibility and alignment.
2. "𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐨𝐛𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐜𝐥𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐰𝐞 𝐜𝐮𝐫𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐥𝐲 𝐟𝐚𝐜𝐢𝐧𝐠?"
👉 Invites openness and collaborative problem-solving.
3. "𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐨𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐬 𝐝𝐨 𝐰𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐯𝐞?"
👉 Turns feedback into growth.
4. "𝐈 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐥𝐲 𝐯𝐚𝐥𝐮𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐞𝐟𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮'𝐫𝐞 𝐩𝐮𝐭𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧."
👉 Acknowledgment fuels motivation.
5. "𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐰𝐞 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬?"
👉 Fosters a learning culture, not a blaming one.
6. "𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐝𝐨 𝐰𝐞 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐚𝐜𝐤𝐥𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐤?"
👉 Keeps the team proactive and prepared.
7. "𝐈 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬."
👉 Empowers decision-making and ownership.
💡 Bonus: “𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐰𝐞 𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐚?” – because informed choices make better outcomes.
💬 𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐥𝐲.
Notice the shift - in conversations, in collaboration, and in confidence.